The brain is a storage area of extraordinary capacity, becomes important to be careful in filling it. Some people have a brain full of thoughts and negative experiences. They will continually invest my input is not capable with a stack of reasons why they could not afford. So when faced with a new opportunity or challenge, their brains, when asked, an answer: No, you can not afford, or other similar responses.
The five steps required to build confidence and in turn building self-confidence for self motivation from within.
Avoid making excuses
So many people discouraged them by asking the reasons that make no sense and completely wrong. Like:
- I can not
- I can not because ...
- I have not been adequately Education
- I'm too old
- I was too young, etc.
Anyone can find an excuse for almost everything, then in building confidence, do not ever make excuses. It was probably very enjoyable and reassuring, but the reasons will only menghamabat seseoarang of achievement of objectives. Remember that your brain is a storage area - what you put in turn will go out again, so replace the insertion of negative things to positive things.
Use Imagination Power
Brain with an unlimited capacity to help you with without limitation reaching ambitions alive if you give him a chance. Let him describe yourself as a person that you want. Clearly describe any shape you want. The more you think about it all the greater certainty of a positive outcome.
If you continue to let your mind filled with all kinds of thinking about disease and ill health, you almost certainly will have the disease you think. If you continue to think about the negative results of association or business career, thinking it is in turn rooted in you.
And in the process of building confidence with the impression menmggunakan brain imagination, it is important to be sure that what you think and see clearly is a positive thing. Positive thing that should enable a positive impression on you and improvement, and positive thinking that should lead to your goals, ideals and happiness in life.
Do not Fear Failure
Failure has been blocking so many people so that they retreated before the try, do or achieve success because they are unable to accept the terms in which it is possible to fail. Some people really do not ever try anything for fear of failure has mastered their brains for years. Every day they think of this failure so that they never actually do something and in the end they were less confident and full of doubts.
Appearance Form Confidence
Outward appearance is not everything. Sometimes it is necessary to spend money for the sake of outward appearances is interesting, because with an attractive outer appearance gives the opportunities that exist within you to feel good. But it must still be realistic. Some people are excessive in their appearance and in the end all of that just for the satisfaction of their ego.
Arrange Note Regarding Success Provided
Every person ever to achieve success in life. How to collect past record of success is very simple. Think about your success behind the earliest that may occur during the school when it won the race marbles or sack race. It may also be started from winning the race congratulations when drawing or painting. This could dulakukan orally on audio cassette or a notebook. You can look back at the records and renew your most valuable asset with these memories will be successful.
Motivation can only perpetuate themselves based on expectations. To motivate themselves, one must have hope of a future. Therefore, in motivating a person responsible for creating its own expectations.