Apparently the secret is the cunning of the magician. By using a few tricks, he managed to remove the potential of the girl to play tricks with him. Without doubt the magician invites the girl to play in front of his family, in front of crowds. The confidence of the magician is so high on the girl's infectious blindness. Since then the girl felt he had become a star in his home. This happens only because there are people who give him a chance to shine for a moment and feel special in front of his family. He who had been feeling a burden on his family now feel aligned with them because of the incident.
The story illustrates how the importance of self-confidence . But, really we need to know first why there are people, there is our friend who seems unlikely to believe in himself? Try also the analysis, about what things that make us so insecure baseball? What the hell are inhibiting ourselves to go forward and spend all our potential? Why must there be a sense of doubt every time there is a desire to do something?
Environmental influences
Apparently this attitude of confidence does not arise due to the habits we develop attitudes and negative opinions about ourselves. It may also not confident attitude has arisen as a result of the influence of our environment. What kind of influence? Among other environmental attitude that makes us afraid to try. Afraid to make mistakes. All shall be as prescribed.
Because there is this fear being scolded, we are so lazy to do things that are different from the crowd. Want to point to the hand when the teacher throws a question in class ... scared! Sometimes even want the road in front of the crowd alone, embarrassed half to death! Especially want to invite people to contact, willing to say no to others, willing to follow the course, hang out ... scared! Well ... if all fear, all doubt, completely lazy way, what would we be?
Before too long, of course we know how many times Thomas Alva Edison made a mistake before it finally managed to find a great formula to make a light bulb. He did not immediately successful when first tried, yes or not?
So, what's the point? May need hundreds of times a failed before reaching a success. Errors not the end of our lives. Mistakes are merely steps toward success. Every mistake brings us closer to success. If we believed this, surely we are confident baseball is also easily influenced by the views or negative attitude of our environment.
Actually there are many ways to be able to increase our confidence. Anything? The most important is that many people relate the same values that we have confidence that is brilliant. Confidence can be contagious, you know! How can that be? Yes, it turns out lots of hanging out with people who are confident can we make an example for our daily lives. Try it, if our daily hanging out at those who believe him high, so we know how he spoke, how he made the decision, and other behaviors that make it look so convincing. If we associate baseball with them, how do we know the rules? How can we can sample to behave? So really it is fixed if we really need to really hang out with people who are confidence if we feel the need to increase our confidence.
Unfortunately, so many of us that baseball could get up, or felt it was pretty pleased with himself today. In fact, I think he's got a much greater potential if only he had the courage to change. The reason baseball is much different from the previous same: there are environmental factors that play a role big enough over there. Try our attention, this attitude usually comes because he is in an environment that felt like baseball PD.
Even so, the most important ways to be able to increase our confidence is the willingness to change ourselves that appears without any coercion. Fight to our live! Only we can change ourselves. If we want to increase confidence, try to rise up and remove all of our potential. The important thing, not! Next search for a conducive environment. Exactly like the story above that which could then help us to improve confidence is to help other people. Just imagine, if the girl met a magician baseball, maybe he will forever feel that he is a burden for his family. In fact, his baseball family to feel that way. Because there is help from others, he learned that he also had a valuable ability for his family. So, if we really want to get something, why should be postponed? Aja Starting from now.